am I the only one, that doesn’t want to go out and drink?

I’ve never been a drinker, socially or otherwise. I don’t like, not being in control of myself. And I really don’t like seeing people make asses of themselves.

so? I need some ideas for a thing to do, I’d like to go out, get a nice dinner, have a glass of wine. But not a bottle! And enjoy the atmosphere!! Ideas?
ps-I live in Indiana, Indianapolis isn’t a far drive. So let’s hear them?
thanks in advance.